Just a little personal anecdote, bear with me--
When I was a teenager one of the sports activity I was involved with was boxing. We trained and were taught what to do and not do. Every time I faced a right handed opponent, I was not faked out with his moves, however, on those rare occasions facing a lefty who led with his right hand, I got faked out and typically got caught with his left. As I got older and heavier the problem persisted until one of my friends who was a lefty and a police academy cadet showed me how to avoid it. In the process of learning from him he bloodied my nose until I got it.
On one boxing lesson I was paired with a very tall opponent who had a long reach and dozens of pounds on me. The big thing with him was he telegraphed his long punches. While we were mixing it up, he saw that I was a sucker for a hard left hand so he switched from leading with his left to leading with his right. As I moved around trying to keep my distance, he tried to cut me off by switching hands and took a wild swing and missed my head. The opportunity was there and I nailed him with a hard left and right and the kid went down. I was shocked--shell shocked that I could do this to this big kid. While on the canvas, the kid looked up and yelled,"I'm gonna kill you." Scared out of my mind I backed off while he got up with a face on him that was all business. All I could do was back off and tore my boxing gloves off. I figured if he was going to hit me with those big gloves I was going to grab and hit him with no gloves. Fortunately, he took a few fierce steps at me and began laughing. The bell rang....the round was over. What a relief. We became good friends after this...and have laughed about it in later years.
Long winded story, I know, but I wonder whether this kind of thing that happened to me, is happening to the Dolphins after the first half where they look pretty good, take it to the "better, bigger and stronger opponent" and then falter because they don't believe in themselves.
This is not just on the players, but the coaches too. Is it happening to both?
Winners have a special mental toughness. What is the state of our mental toughness?
Let's call Dr. Phil.